Negativity Bias

Ever had a good day, but all you can think about is one awkward moment? The compliments fade, the calm disappears, and your mind fixates on what went wrong. That’s not a flaw, it’s negativity bias: your brain’s tendency to prioritize negative experiences over neutral...

Bilateral Stimulation!

Bilateral stimulation (BLS) is a core technique in therapies like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART). In this post, we’ll explore what BLS is, the theories behind its effectiveness, and why it works for so...

Somatic & Experiential Therapies

Sometimes I have a challenging time writing educational material about mental health. It is not because I don’t feel I have valuable information to share or that I don’t think providing this type of information is not helpful. It is because ultimately I am...

The Problem of Perfectionism

Many people carry the pressure to be perfect. It often shows up as anxiety, self-criticism, or unrealistic expectations that leave you feeling like you’re always falling short. Perfectionism, the relentless pursuit of flawlessness, creates a cycle of fear, doubt, and...

Complex Trauma

Trauma is deeply personal, subjective, and often misunderstood. While it’s commonly linked to a single event like an accident or assault, trauma can take many forms. Both single-incident and complex trauma can lead to similar symptoms, including hypervigilance,...